Comparing apps
Looking for a Hiki alternative
Hiki built something good for autistic and neurodivergent daters. If you want a wider pool, a free tier you can actually use, or a site as well as an app, here's the honest comparison.
5 min readArticles
Straight answers to the things that come up when you're dating with a disability. Written to be useful, not to fill a page.
Advice (2) Practical tips (2) Autistic dating (1) Comparing apps (3)
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Advice
The questions that come up before anything else does.
Advice
When to tell someone about your disability
There's no correct moment to bring up your disability when dating. Here's how to think about timing, and why the pressure to disclose early isn't yours to carry.
6 min read
Advice
Handling questions you'd rather not answer
Some questions come from curiosity, some from nosiness, and some are just rude. Here's how to redirect without killing the conversation or apologising for it.
5 min readPractical tips
Small things that make dating easier to actually do.
Practical tips
Writing a dating profile when you're disabled
What to put in, what to leave out, and how to write about your disability without it becoming the whole profile. With examples you can steal.
7 min read
Practical tips
Planning a first date that actually works
Access, energy and escape routes. A practical guide to picking a place, checking it properly, and keeping the first meeting low stakes.
6 min readAutistic dating
Written for autistic adults, not about them.
Autistic dating
Dating when you're autistic
On masking, small talk, sensory load and pace. Written for autistic adults who are tired of dating advice that assumes everyone reads people the same way.
7 min readComparing apps
Honest looks at the other options and where we fit.
Comparing apps
Looking for a Hiki alternative
Hiki built something good for autistic and neurodivergent daters. If you want a wider pool, a free tier you can actually use, or a site as well as an app, here's the honest comparison.
5 min read
Comparing apps
A Tinder alternative for disabled daters
Tinder has the numbers. What it doesn't have is a way to skip the explaining. Here's an honest comparison for anyone tired of the same conversation every match.
5 min read
Comparing apps
Looking for a Dateability alternative
Dateability is built for disabled and chronically ill daters and does it well. If you want a browser option, a bigger pool or a free tier that goes further, here's the comparison.
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