Access is just logistics
Asking whether somewhere is step free is a normal question here, not a difficult one. Plenty of members ask it first and think nothing of it.
Wheelchair dating, without the chair being the point
You are not a wheelchair with a person attached. Here that's the starting assumption rather than something you have to establish over three messages.
- Free to join and browse
- Every profile checked
- You choose what you share
What changes when everyone already gets it
Access stops being a negotiation and starts being ordinary planning.
Chosen, not admired
Nobody here is going to call you inspiring for going on a date. You get to be fancied rather than applauded.
Screened before you see it
Free ID and video verification, and every photo and message checked on the way in. Report anyone who fixates on the chair and we deal with it.
Manual, powered, part time or full time
Some members use a chair every day, some only for distance, some are recent and still working it out. It's all just part of a person here rather than a category to be sorted into.
- Put the chair in your photos or don't, entirely your call
- Filter by distance so you're not going further than suits you
- Say what access you need without it becoming a whole conversation
- Members with all kinds of mobility, visible and invisible
How it works
Free to join, free to browse, and no card needed to start.
Make your profile
Share as much or as little as you like. You decide what goes on it and what stays private.
Look around
Browse members near you and get daily matches. Message when you feel like it, not before.
Talk properly
Upgrade when you're ready for unlimited messages and to see everyone who likes you.
Questions people ask
Is it free?
Yes. Building a profile, verifying your ID, browsing members and daily matches cost nothing, and no card is needed. You can message a set number of people a day free and reply freely to paying members.
Is everyone here a wheelchair user?
No. It's a platform for disabled adults generally, so you'll meet wheelchair users alongside people with every other kind of disability, and people who simply understand.
Do I have to show my wheelchair in photos?
Not unless you want to. Some members lead with it so there are no surprises, others don't. Neither choice needs defending.
How do you handle people who fetishise it?
Report them and we act. Messages and photos are screened before they reach you, members carry a rating based on how they treat people, and blocking is instant and permanent.
Can I say what access I need?
Yes, and plenty do. Putting it on your profile turns it into information rather than an awkward conversation later on.
Have a look, no pressure
A profile takes a couple of minutes and costs nothing. See who is around before you decide anything.
Create your free profile