157,500 members
The pool you can browse and message from the day you join. Big enough that there are people near you, specific enough that they understand.
Meet someone who gets it, without explaining yourself first
Tired of the same conversation with every match? On Disabled Love Dates everyone already understands, so you get to be a person first.
- 157,500members to browse
- 4.6 average member rating
- Free to join
- Verified profiles
- Discreet billing
- No spam, ever
The explaining gets old
It isn't the rejection that wears people down. It's doing the same introduction forty times.
On a general dating app
- You decide when to mention it, every single match
- You brace for the reply, every single time
- Half the conversations quietly stop after you do
- Access questions turn into an awkward negotiation
- You get messages from people who see a fetish, not a person
On Disabled Love Dates
- It's already understood before you say hello
- The first conversation is about literally anything else
- Access is just planning, not a confession
- Every profile is checked before it reaches you
- Report anyone who makes it weird and we act on it
A platform people actually stay on
The numbers below are the ones that matter when you're deciding whether it's worth your time.
4.6 average rating
Rated by members themselves, and every member carries their own rating based on how they actually behave towards other people.
Free ID verification
Available on every membership including the free one, by government ID or a quick video check. Verified members show a badge.
What you get from day one
All of this is on the free membership.
Start at message two
Skip the part where you explain your disability before anyone sees you. Everyone here already understands, so the first conversation is about anything else.
Know who's real
Free ID verification and video checks on every membership, including the free one. Verified members carry a badge so you can see it at a glance.
Your details stay yours
Real name and email never shown. Nearest town only, never your address. You decide what goes on your profile and what doesn't.
Screened before it reaches you
Every photo and message is checked as it's uploaded, by software and by real moderators. Fetishists and time-wasters get removed, not managed.
All kinds of disability
Physical, sensory, neurodivergent, learning disability, chronic illness, visible and invisible. Members from their twenties to well past sixty.
Real people on support
Chat and phone, 24 hours a day, staffed by people used to helping. Not a chatbot and not a form that disappears.
Joining takes about two minutes
No card, no commitment, nothing to cancel.
Create your free profile
Two minutes, no card needed. Share as much or as little about your disability as you want to.
Free, no card
Verify for free
Government ID or a quick video call with our team. You get a badge, and people can see you're real.
Free on every plan
Browse 157,500 members
See who's near you and get daily matches picked for you. Looking around costs nothing at all.
Browsing is free
Start talking
Message members and reply free to anyone who messages you first. Upgrade only if you want unlimited.
Reply free, alwaysSomeone's already looking for you
157,500 members, and joining costs nothing. Have a look and see who's there.
Create your free profile- Free to join
- Verified profiles
- Discreet billing
- No spam, ever
157,500 members · 4.6 average rating · every profile checked
Before you join
Is it actually free to join?
Yes. Building a profile, verifying your ID, browsing all 157,500 members and getting daily matches costs nothing, and you don't need a card to start. You can send a set number of messages a day for free, and reply to anything a paying member sends you.
What does VIP get me?
Unlimited messaging, advanced search filters, private group chats, and you get to see everyone who already likes you. VIP+ adds priority placement so your profile is seen first. Plenty of members never upgrade at all.
Will anyone I know see my profile?
Your real name and email are never shown to other members. We only ever display your nearest town or city, never your address or live location. You choose every photo and every detail that goes on your profile.
Will I get spammed?
No. We only email you about your own account and matches, and you can turn that off. Every message from another member is screened before it reaches you, and blocking is instant and permanent.
What should I actually expect?
Most people get talking within a few days. Some meet someone in a couple of weeks, some browse for months first. Both are normal. Nobody here needs your backstory before they'll have a conversation with you.