Free ID verification on every plan
Some platforms charge for it or skip it. Ask whether verification is free, whether it uses government ID or video, and whether verified members carry a visible badge.
Still deciding which disabled dating site to use?
Fair enough. They are not all the same, and the differences that matter are not the ones on the homepage. Here are six things worth checking before you hand over an email address anywhere.
- 157,500members to browse
- 4.6 average member rating
- Free to join
- Verified profiles
- Discreet billing
- No spam, ever
Six things worth checking anywhere you sign up
These are the questions that actually change what your inbox looks like in a month.
A free tier that actually does something
Free should mean more than looking. Check whether you can verify, browse everyone, get matches and send any messages at all without a card.
Works on more than one device
App-only means you are stuck with a phone. If phone use tires you or a keyboard is easier, check there is a browser version.
Enough people near you
A tight niche can mean a very thin pool outside big cities. Ask how many members you can actually browse, not how many have ever signed up.
Moderation before it reaches you
Screening on upload beats reacting to reports. Check whether photos and messages are reviewed on the way in, and how fast reports get acted on.
Blocking that sticks
Instant, permanent, and no explanation required. It is the single feature you will be gladdest of.
How we answer those six
We would rather you checked us against that list than took our word for it.
- Free ID and video verification on every membership, including the free one
- Free tier with a full profile, all 157,500 members browsable, daily matches and messages
- Works in any browser and installs to your home screen, plus native apps in selected markets
- Every disability, visible and invisible, from twenties through to sixties and beyond
- Photos and messages screened on upload by software and by real people
- Instant permanent blocking, and a rating on every member based on how they treat people
- Free to join
- Verified profiles
- Discreet billing
- No spam, ever
Questions people ask before joining
Is it free to join?
Yes. A full profile, free ID verification, browsing all 157,500 members and daily matches cost nothing, and you don't need a card. You can send a set number of messages a day free and reply to anything a paying member sends you.
Can I use more than one at once?
Of course, and plenty of people do while they work out which suits them. There's nothing to cancel here if you decide it isn't for you.
How big is the pool really?
157,500 members you can browse and message from the day you join. That is the number that matters, rather than total signups since launch.
What makes this different from a general dating app?
Everyone here already understands disability, so you skip the explaining that makes general apps exhausting. Verification is free, and moderation is built around the kind of unwanted attention disabled daters actually get.
Is my information private?
Your real name and email are never shown to other members. We display your nearest town only, never your address. Billing is discreet and you choose every detail on your profile.
You can look before you decide
Joining is free and takes a couple of minutes. Browse 157,500 members and see whether it feels right.
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- Verified profiles
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