No masking required
Write your profile the way you actually talk. Say you prefer text to calls, that you need time to reply, or that busy places are out. It's information, not an apology.
Autism dating, without the panic
An autistic dating site where nobody expects you to mask. No small talk games, no pressure to reply fast, and no explaining why eye contact is hard. Free to join and free to look around.
- Free to join and browse
- Every profile checked
- You choose what you share
Built for how autistic people actually date
Not a general dating app with a filter bolted on.
No small talk games
Skip the scripted opener. Plenty of members here would rather talk about a special interest for an hour than exchange three rounds of pleasantries.
Real people, checked
Free ID verification, video checks and moderation on every photo and message. Fewer unknowns to manage, which matters more when the guesswork is already hard.
Date at your own speed
There's no timer, no streak to keep up, and no penalty for taking three days to answer. Some members chat for weeks before meeting. That's normal here, not a red flag.
- Reply when you have the energy, not when an app nudges you
- Say upfront how you prefer to communicate
- Block or report anyone instantly, no explanation needed
- Quiet browsing, no forced swiping
How it works
Free to join, free to browse, and no card needed to start.
Make your profile
Share as much or as little as you like. You decide what goes on it and what stays private.
Look around
Browse members near you and get daily matches. Message when you feel like it, not before.
Talk properly
Upgrade when you're ready for unlimited messages and to see everyone who likes you.
Questions people ask
Is it free?
Yes. Making a profile, browsing members and getting daily matches costs nothing, and you don't need a card to start. You can send a limited number of messages a day for free and reply to anything a paying member sends you. Upgrading adds unlimited messaging and more.
Is there an app?
You can use the site in any browser on your phone, and install it to your home screen so it works like an app. Native iPhone and Android apps are available in selected markets.
Do I have to say I'm autistic?
No. Some members put it right up front, some never mention it. Both are fine. The point of being here is that you don't owe anyone an explanation either way.
Is this only for autistic people?
No. It's a dating platform for disabled adults generally, and autistic members are a big part of it. You can meet autistic people and non-autistic people who understand.
What if I find messaging hard?
You set the pace. There's no read-receipt pressure on free accounts, no streaks, and no expectation to reply within a certain time. You can also say on your profile how you prefer to communicate.
Have a look, no pressure
Making a profile takes a couple of minutes and costs nothing. You can browse first and decide later.
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